Have I been a good friend?

After a storm there is always a rainbow. In the darkness there is always a shiny star. The sun always rises to bring you light and warmth.

Last couple of weeks have been awful. I was feeling and behaving dreadfully. Mopping around, moody, miserable and sad.

Three people in my life were like the shining star, warm sunshine and happy rainbow. They looked after me, and all the time I was an unpleasant person to be around; I know I behaved badly. I was the bad friend.

So this is for you three ladies – you know who you are and if you don’t….well I will send you something 🙂

Thank you

For being there even if silent

For listening and saying nothing

For watching my destructive attitude and for being kind

For your guidance, warm hugs and support

For being loyal, my confidant and trying your best to cheer me up

For listening to my childish gripes and letting me share what was in my heart

For being genuinely happy for me when I got back to my normal self

♥ ♥ ♥

I’m sorry if I was a bad friend at that bad time or any time, you don’t deserve that. Sending Blessings and Love your way

May your day be filled with blessings Like the sun lights the sky  And may you always have the courage  To spread your wings and fly

May your day be filled with blessings
Like the sun lights the sky
And may you always have the courage
To spread your wings and fly

Reason, Season or Lifetime

seasonsIt’s a sad time when you realize you’ve lost a friend or two…they are there but just not as close as they used to be. I guess they make space for the new ones, it’s part of the seasons…

Reason, Season or Lifetime.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through difficulty; to provide you with guidance and support; They may seem like a Godsend, and they are.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they will die. Sometimes they will walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.

Some people come into our lives for a SEASON, They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh, They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real – but only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person. It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.

-Author Unknown-